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To be or not to be

stephy — Fri, 09 Apr 2010 14:46:37 +0000

have worked in the same company for almost three years, so tired, feel sleepy every night around 21:00 p.m.

hope to change, fear to change, so complex feelings.

sometimes, I want to set myself free when I am busy at work. What kind of job can give fresh air every day? It is so sad that

my hard working can’t make the equivalent incomes.

Sometimes, I wonder if I resign from my current job, what position is fit for me? or will it jump to another same circle?

However, I know my current job is important for me, I am married and will have a baby in the near future, if I quit it,

no one wants to employ me again. As a female employee, it is so hard to me.

To be or not to be, that’s a question, I am a common woman, I have no choice.

Do Not Develop The Relationship with A Man So Quickly

stephy — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 05:12:00 +0000

Sometimes, people is a little despicable, they will not cherish the thing they get easily and quickly, and relationship can not avoid this destiny.

In my parent’s conservatve time, a man need to invite a woman to more than 100 dinners for a kiss or holding hands. They are used to do things step by step, so they really can’t accept one night stand of modern youth. According to the research data, divorce rate is higher now, can we accuse it to our too fast development? As we short the time of association from a few years into a few weeks or a few days.

So if you fall in love with a man who you think is your Mr Right, don’t develop your relationship with him too quickly. Slow down, and refuse him about three times if he want to have dinner with you, and don’t behave so open when you are together.

However, man is like a kid, he need candy sometimes, a surprising kiss is a good gift.

How Do You Think If A Guy Who is Single After Thirty Something

stephy — Fri, 20 Mar 2009 01:40:00 +0000

Normally, people take “Thirty” as the separate age line between single and married, so if your age unfortunately over that line, you may be thought as a freak.

For a man, if he is the unlucky one, people will guess any possibilities, in which “Bad Sex Ability” does really break his heart. Why people will think that way, maybe he very enjoys his own single life and enjoys dating with many hot girls. You know, many men don’t want to lose the whole woods for only one tree.

For a woman, the guess is more worse. Like one of my relatives Helen, she is thirty eight years old now, still single. Every time, when the topic falls on her, people seems have nothing to say but just “has she married or why she doesn’t marry”, and I need to say sorry to her, as I are talking about her in the same situation. Probably, she is still trying to find the true love, but people will not so kind, they will think you are sexless, or you are a lesbian.

Seems unfair, as you have your right to decide to marry or not. No matter you are a man or a woman, don’t be afraid of “Thirty”, just follow you owe mind and let it be, life is yours, not others

Should we marry with a men who love you more?

stephy — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 13:01:45 +0000

When you run into some trouble or some difficult situation, you maybe can’t help thinking if I got marry with a men who love me more, I wound get through soon.

On my opinion, most women have such thought. You know, all we need in life is a powerful arm, which can protect us and give us hope, but life always likes to play game with us. This kind of true love can not be so easy to find, so finally, we fight with the trouble alone.

But if you do ask what kind of men should we choose, of course the men who love me more is the best one. Not because we are all selfish, the truth is we ingratiate others most of the time. It feels so good that someone so cares about you that he will try all his best to make you happy.

So if you meet this “good thing”, don’t let him go.

Women And Bras

stephy — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 15:52:00 +0000

The relationships between women and bras just as the relationships between women and men. Too big or too small will make you uncomfortable.

When I was a child, my wish was to be married to someone who was handsome, rich, intelligent, perfect. However, I realize that it only come out in fairy tale after I grow up. In fact, I am not the only one who has that dream, some women will choose BFs or husbands base on how much money they owe. This is an expensive big “bra”, it is not fit for anyone, if you are only 32A, pls don’t have a try.

My BF is not the big expensive “bra”, but he is my Mr Right, at least for now. When I am sad, he will tell me funny stories; When I am hungry, he will cook for me, he is like my bra, I know he will always protect me.

Is your bra fit for you?

Financial Crisis is In China Now

stephy — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 11:19:00 +0000

Our goverment told us we would not be influenced by the financial crisis, but facts showed up the truth. Today, I had a deep feelings about it, as one of my colleague was fired, and there was no any trace before. I just wondered when it was my turn to be disemployed?

This year, most of commodities raised price, salary decreased, it was very difficult for us to live. If you lost your job at this time, it would be the hardest days of your life.

So many people couldn’t find jobs, how can they make life going ??

What’s Your Role in Company?

stephy — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 12:47:00 +0000

In one company, there are two kinds of roles—busy and leisure. The busy guys are too busy to forget to have a drink, on the contrary, the leisure guys just surf on the internet.

My company is a good example, Financial, import&export department are the most busy departments. They are on the go all the time. My department is the import&export, whose menbers are only five(A to E).

A: Supervisor

B: Dealing with the imported issues

C: Handling the exported issues(me)

D: Put the dox in order

E: Customs declare (go outside everyday)

Everyday, our loading are very heavy. I have experienced eight shipments one day; I need to do the declarence dox, shipping dox, placebooking forms to the forwarders ,complete the system, calculate the freight quotation and so on. So you can imagine how busy I am. When I turn arond, my colleagues in Quality Department are all having fun on the net. In addition, PP and MP also join in them. Wow, you may say what a crazy world, but we do live in the crazy world.

In fact, I don’t hope to be one of them, I enjoy the busy, I will get ill if I stop. Then, what’s the role in your company?

Asian Girls

stephy — Sun, 16 Nov 2008 10:49:00 +0000

Girls can be lovely, sexy, gentle, brute…

As I know, Asian Men like lovely girls, for example, Japanese, Chinese, they all prefer lovely girls. However, that does not mean they are not interest in sexy girls. In fact, they hope to have sex relationships with the openning girls and take lovely innocent girls as their fiancee. Maybe you can use “selfish” to describe them, as they don’t want to share the beauty with others about their girlfriends. It is possible that Asian girls want to set up a fix relationships with their boyfriends so that they don’t have a choice but pretend to be innocent, and they cannot find their sexy potential.

Being yourself is very important, not only comfortable, but also help to find your Mr Right.

Somebody or Nobody

stephy — Sat, 15 Nov 2008 13:38:00 +0000

when I was a baby, cute and lovely were the compliments from people—-I’m somebody

whe I was a kid, docile and clever were the praise from people—–I’m somebody

1999, I passed the examination of a famous High School, my parents and relatives were pride of me—-I’m somebody

2002, I went to the university, my families were glad to see me off at the train station—I’m somebody

2006, I gradurated from College, hunted a job by any possible ways—-I’m nobody

2007 to now, I work hard but salary is not enough for me to live an easy life—-I’m nobody

what the Bird‘ Nest looks like now?

stephy — Wed, 12 Nov 2008 14:53:00 +0000

The 2008 Olympic Games has been kept as a wonderful memory in our mind. As a host country, China has showed the best power to the whole world, which makes many people surprised, and Bird’s Nest is thought to be a great building.

The Bird’s Nest is the main track and field stadium for the 2008 Olympic Games, the famous opening and closing ceremonies were held there. I think this 29 days is his most glory history. However, I just worry about its future. Our chinese seems don’t care about this super building, lots of rubbish are scattered everywhere, some lawn lighting facilities are broken and taken as a chair(In fact, there are many benches for rest there) I think you will be very amazed if you have undergoed this changing process.

Moreover, you should pay RMB50 to visit it! Anyways, don’t make it drity when you have chance to be there!